Validation Is Overrated
Founders chase validation like it proves something. Most of what passes for validation proves nothing, and chasing it wastes the time that would.
Validate your idea. Get validation before you build. The phrase is now gospel in startup advice. Founders spend months chasing it. They run surveys, interviews, sign-up forms, and warm chats. But most of what they call validation is not that at all. It is comfort dressed up as proof. Chasing it feels productive, yet you learn almost nothing. The way most founders do it, validation is badly overrated.
Why the conventional wisdom is wrong
The common wisdom is wrong, and the reason is simple. The signals founders treat as validation are cheap, and they cost the other person nothing. People say they like your idea, swear they would "definitely use it," or fill in a survey. That is just politeness, not proof. We are all wired to encourage a hopeful founder standing right in front of us. Soft validation does not predict behavior; it only predicts that people are nice. Collect enough of it and you convince yourself the market is real. All you have really shown is that people will not insult you.
Surveys and "would you use this" questions measure stated intent. And stated intent is a weak guide to future action.
Friends, family, and close contacts give warm, biased views. That kind of praise will back almost any idea.
Vanity numbers, likes, sign-ups, applause, feel like progress. But they say nothing about who will really pay.
What is actually true
Here is the real truth. The only proof worth having is costly, it makes the other person give up something they value. In business the clearest signal is money: someone pays you, pays in advance, or signs a contract. After money comes time, effort, and reputation. Picture a client who builds you into their product, refers others, or reworks their day to use you. All of these cost something, so they predict real behavior. Anything cheaper is just noise that feels like signal.
This also points to the fastest test: build the smallest real thing and try to sell it, rather than research endlessly first. A founder who spends three months on validation surveys learns little. One who spends three weeks chasing a single paying customer learns far more. The market does not answer surveys honestly. It answers with its wallet.
Validation that actually counts
Someone pays you real money. Ideally, they pay before the item is even built.
A customer changes their habits or workflow to use what you built.
People refer others, unasked. They put their own reputation on the line.
Customers come back and use it again. That is something no survey can ever promise.
What we have seen
When we started Through The Glass Creatives from nothing, we had no luxury of a validation phase, we needed paying clients to eat. So our proof was the only kind that counts: could we get someone to pay us for work, and would they come back? That is a far harder and more honest test than any survey. Passing it over and over is how we grew into an award-winning company. Since then we have watched founders spend months testing an idea with glowing feedback. They build the thing everyone "loved," then find that not one of those fans will actually pay. The validation was real. The willingness to pay never existed.
The honest take
Most validation is a way to delay the only test that matters, while feeling like you are cutting risk. Encouragement is not evidence, sign-ups are not sales, and "I would use that" is not "here is my money." If you want to know whether you have a business, stop collecting opinions and try to get someone to pay you for the smallest real version of it. That is uncomfortable, which is exactly why it works. The market tells the truth only when telling it costs the customer something. Chase that, and skip the rest.
Sources
This all comes from TTGC lessons. We learned them by building our own company and advising clients.
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